WHETHER you're graduating or moving up from junior to senior high school, congratulations for this achievement.
This may not really be a big deal for you but it is for your family who sent you to school. It is a big deal for parents who, themselves, did not get to finish school but have the resolve to get their children a college education. It is a big deal for your OFW (Overseas Filipino Workers) relatives who struggle everyday against loneliness abroad, their remittances helped make your diploma possible. If you're a working student, this is definitely a big deal because not giving up on your dream paid off.
Celebrate this achievement by sharing it. Share it with your family by expressing your gratitude and appreciation of their love and support through the years. A sincere and heartfelt gesture would mean a lot to them. Share it with your teachers and mentors by making them feel special. Their selfless commitment to their noble vocation has touched the lives of many generations of young people. Share it with those who are not as fortunate you are. They are those whose limited means in life prevented them from getting a diploma. Volunteer and be part of a cause-oriented program for the marginalized.
Live in the moment as life moments like this may be rare. While basking in and enjoying your achievement, don't let this moment pass without contemplating on the values and lessons from this experience. Listen with your heart to what life is trying to make you realize and teach you.
Life's best lessons are learned at times of joy and jubilation because of the abundance of inspiration, optimism and hope.
While living in the moment, look into the future. Take this opportunity to plan your life and set your objectives. Now is the time to carefully track your path towards your dreams and aspirations. In doing so, do not be weighed down by material limitations and personal insecurities. Let optimism and faith in your potential and capacities inspire you. Begin with a concrete short term plan on what do you want to achieve in the next five years for yourself and your loved ones.
Finally, dear class of 2017, here are some unsolicited but thoughtful advice for personal growth and development:
1. Balance your online and offline life.
Resolve to spend less time online and service with your gadgets. Have more face to face interaction with peers, friends and family.
2. Value hard work.
Remember that hard work is never overrated. Strive to be the best. Always do your best. Be conscientious at work or in school.
3. Be kind and compassionate.
Kindness and compassion are fast becoming rare currencies in this modernizing world. But it does not mean that they are not relevant anymore. They are still very essential.
4. Never lose your youth.
Idealism and passion with a dash of stubbornness are recognized as youthful traits. Nurture them. They will always come handy.
5. Find your bliss.
Do not be afraid to defy expectations about you. While you are still young, choose the path that will lead you to personal fulfillment.