SOME may treat the 14th of February just an ordinary day. Others may look into it as another chance to show their affection to people they love, but there are those, who take it as the best time to go for a date with someone they’re up to.
During your first date, it is but best to leave a great impression to that “someone” as no one knows where that good impression may take you, maybe to your "forever."
Here are effective tips you might want to consider to ace your first date:
Give her flowers
It's always nice to go back with the traditional way. Giving flowers show sincerity, courage and deep affection. Offering a flower to your date in Valentine’s Day is a good start towards acing your first date.
P.S. notice the way she smiles when you hand her the flowers.
Gauge her interest
By the very moment you were together, always search for a topic that would capture her attention. It’s the best way to let her speak and a chance to know her more.
Her interests can also be your guide on how to handle her and a sign if whether both of you are compatible or not, but make sure you prioritize her opinion and set aside yours, just for tonight man!
Ask her out for a dinner
"The way to win a man's heart is through her stomach", they say, but that quote can also be applied for women.
While you are on the move in gauging her interests, she will surely include her favorite stuffs along the way and it will include her favorite color, place, song, pet and of course, food.
In that case, you already have an idea where to take her for dinner. Woman tends to hold back during your first date and will keep herself classy at all time. But once she feels comfortable with you, that conservative-classy type will transform into a cowgirl and would even race with you on how many extra rice you would both conquer.
Take her to places
While both of you savored your dinner, plan where to go next, and make sure it fits her interest. Some would want to go to the carnival, some women wants on the seaside and others wanted to be at the mall. Whatever her preference is, just go with the flow.
When you’re already on the destination, start a conversation where you would be able to unveil your true affection. Putting it through a joke may work like, "Do you know how many stars are there in the skies? Because I once counted it and there are two stars missing? And found those two missing stars in your eyes."
Once you tell her how you felt for her, never expect anything, just bare your feelings, nothing more.
Some women will respond to you by the moment you're together and some will think about it overnight, for weeks, for months or even for years. But just be patient, love is not a race.
Be a gentleman, bring her home
It's a legendary move coming from a gentleman. It is an SOP. A simple act but would mean a lot for girls. They feel they are safe, they feel like they're being cared and they feel that they are important, so do it dude!
Don't also forget to thank her for being with you for the night even if you're the one who paid all the bills. You’re the boy. And always try to ask her "can we go out again sometime?” you know you aced your first date when she said, Yes!